How to attract your LOVER?
As you've probably once heard: "Nice guys finish last!"
Yes, it's true! When it comes to meeting and attracting women, the last thing you want to do is act like Mr. Nice Guy. While it's important to respect and treat women well, it never pays off to be the overly friendly guy who acts like a supplicating wimp.
For the average woman, the nice guy makes a great FRIEND. He's there to listen to her problems, but is NEVER regarded as a potential dating partner. Instead she is drawn to the guys who can provide excitement and won't take crap from anybody.
Now if you're like a lot of guys, then you might think that doing favors for a woman will make her fall in love with you. Unfortunately this is far from the truth. Every woman has a man in her life who is there to provide emotional support. However when she looks for somebody to date, it won't be the guy who is always there for her. It'll be that edgy guy who gives her that excited, tingling feeling deep inside.
What's interesting is women actually LOVE nice guys! But they NEVER view them as potential dating partners. Deep down inside women know that any guy who is too nice and acts like a "doormat" is too boring to date. In other words, nice guys do nothing to excite women.
So the solution is simple: STOP acting like a nice guy!
Rather then displaying this personality trait, you should become a man who women WANT to date. Simply focus on becoming the kind of man who lives an interesting life. In addition don't act like a woman's FRIEND, act like her LOVER. Never shy away from acting like a confident guy who isn't afraid to go after what he wants- Regardless of the outcome.
The important thing is to NEVER act like a jerk. Just become more of a challenge to women, while maintaining a casual attitude. When you display this personality trait, you'll a prize that women will have to work hard to obtain.
When you eliminate your "Mr. Nice Guy" behavior and focus on displaying higher status behavior, you'll easily transform yourself into the kind of man who women want to date.
Thursday, September 6, 2007
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